Interactive Diagnostic

Why Are You Single?

What is your dating struggle? If you’re single, you’ll fall into one of three types. Take this 3-question reality check to diagnose your dating life and uncover your exact next steps.

Question 01 of 03

How much effort are you actually putting into dating right now?

Question 02 of 03

How many actual, viable matches have you landed in the past 3 months?

Question 03 of 03

Do you feel like the algorithm is actively plotting against your romantic happiness?

Your Diagnosis: Mostly A's

Struggling to Find the One

It's not hard for you to land dates, but conversations often fizzle out after a meeting or two. Now that you have options, you're seeking genuine spark and chemistry rather than someone who fits the bill. You want romance and compatibility that leads to real love.

"Finding the one is similar to two ships passing in the night. To help the process, we check if your compass and inner light are strong. When you’re shining brightly, authentic people have an easier time finding you. But shining brightly also attracts moths to a flame—you need a strong inner compass to determine who you have real chemistry and alignment with."

Solution & Action Plan

Step 1: Are You Showing Up Authentically?

On the date, are you present or presenting? Are nerves getting in the way of true connection? Are you feeling the chemistry on dates, or focused on saying the right things?

How easily can you answer ‘how do you feel about the date?’ (which is very different from ‘how did it go?’). Can you discern what made this date special, if at all?

Step 2: Cultivate Attraction & Presence

Do you feel confident and attractive when out in public? Do you notice interest or subtle advances from others when socialized?

If you were to meet the one in the wild, would you be able to approach and make an advance? Or would you fumble?

Step 3: Define What Truly Attracts You

Do you have a clear idea of what you’re truly attracted to? Sometimes what we think is initially attractive might change once we get to know someone.

How often do you encounter people you find genuinely attractive? How frequently do conversations start with people you are actually drawn to?

Your Diagnosis: Mostly B's

Struggling to Find a Date

You ran out of people to swipe on in your city, started paying for premium and boosts, and tried every new app—yet the results aren't getting better. In fact, they might be getting worse the harder you try. You just can’t figure out how to ‘unlock’ the secrets to online dating. Stop doing the same thing expecting a different result. Let’s get feedback and an action plan that will actually move the needle.

"The goal is to figure out if there’s something obviously wrong with your approach (profile presentation, initial conversation) aligning with your expectations. Together, we answer the age-old question: 'Are my expectations unreasonable?'"

Solution & Action Plan

Step 1: Dating Profile Evaluation

Evaluate and overhaul how effectively you present yourself in person vs. online. We fix what you're projecting.

Step 2: Preferences & Market Fit

Assess the real alignment between what you're looking for and your target demographic in your local market.

Step 3: Diagnosis & Adjustment

Determine whether to recalibrate your messaging, your photos, or your expectations for realistic, sustainable success.

Step 4: Re-Entry Strategy

Prepare a fresh, confident strategy to re-enter the dating scene with renewed enthusiasm.

After an initial assessment, I'll tell you how much effort is needed to hit your goal:

The Gradual Approach

We make improvements incrementally. It’s natural to work on one thing at a time. I help you set realistic goals—whether it’s taking one new photo or fixing one prompt that will make the biggest impact.

The Drastic Approach

We take your profile offline entirely, rebuild it from the ground up, and make comprehensive improvements until it is 100% ready to re-launch.

Meet Lori Joyce

Successful dating is what you decide it is.

Whether it’s simply landing one date, getting into a relationship, or finding the love of your life—I’m here to assist and move at a pace that works best for you.

Change takes time. If you’ve been struggling to date successfully, it’s probably not an easy overnight fix. But I’m also a practical person: let’s not wait until you’re perfect to put yourself out there. Let’s just get you in a good enough spot where you have a real chance at success.

I’m hoping that once you hear the ideas and recommendations, the lightbulb will go off and you can make the changes on your own. But if you desire more hands-on assistance and don't want to spend the time figuring it out alone, I offer targeted deep-dives to get you there faster.

"Let's not wait until you're perfect to put yourself out there. Let's just get you in a good spot where you have a chance at success."

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Let’s Talk About Your Dating Life

Schedule an introductory conversation to review your quiz results, evaluate your current approach, and map out a practical action plan.

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Why Are You Single?

How much effort are you actually putting into dating right now?

How many actual, viable matches have you landed in the past 3 months?

Do you feel like the algorithm is actively plotting against your romantic happiness?

Struggling to Find the One

Solution & Action Plan

Step 1: Are You Showing Up Authentically?

Step 2: Cultivate Attraction & Presence

Step 3: Define What Truly Attracts You

Ready to Stop Having First Dates That Go Nowhere?

Struggling to Find a Date

Solution & Action Plan

Step 1: Dating Profile Evaluation

Step 2: Preferences & Market Fit

Step 3: Diagnosis & Adjustment

Step 4: Re-Entry Strategy

After an initial assessment, I'll tell you how much effort is needed to hit your goal:

The Gradual Approach

The Drastic Approach

Stop Swiping Into a Void

Struggling to Put Yourself Out There

Solution & Action Plan

Step 1: Resetting Your Mindset

Step 2: Finding Your Confidence

Step 3: Dipping Your Toe in the Water

Take the Pressure Off

Successful dating is what you decide it is.

Targeted Advisory & Options

Understanding the Algorithm

Personal Makeover

How to Be Photogenic

How to Be Unforgettable

Let’s Talk About Your Dating Life